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What Gets in the Way of Success with Sleep Coaching?
Many families come to me after they've tried and struggled with various sleep solutions—whether it's books, DIY methods, or even other sleep coaches. It's common to feel frustrated or as though you've hit a wall, but it's important to remember that these challenges aren’t a reflection of failure. Most of the time, families are missing some essential elements that can make all the difference in achieving sleep success.
When there are ongoing sleep struggles, it's usually a family system issue, not just about the child lacking sleep skills. It’s sometimes about routines, strategies, how this parent does it versus the other parent. It’s about trying to navigate multiple family schedules, older children, younger children, all of that. For families struggling, it’s crucial to look at the bigger picture and consider all of that when creating a sleep plan.
Sleep Coaching Obstacles
Here are the most common obstacles that get in the way of success with sleep coaching:
1. Lack of a Clear Sleep Plan
Many families try to tackle sleep issues without a structured plan, often resorting to trial and error with different techniques. Without a clear strategy, it’s easy to fall back on inconsistent patterns, which makes it difficult for your child to develop solid sleep skills.
Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching offers a customized plan, tailored to your child and family’s specific needs and goals.The Blissful Baby Stairway to Sleep™process starts with gathering information about your family. I gather detailed sleep logs, client history, and temperament assessments on you and your child. This includes your parenting aspirations and wish list, also known as your Sweet Dreams.
2. Lack of Agreement Between Parents or Caregivers
One of the biggest hurdles I see is when both parents or caregivers aren’t on the same page about the sleep coaching approach. If one parent is following a gentle sleep coaching method while the other is doing something completely different, it can create confusion for the child. This inconsistency can hinder progress and make it harder for sleep skills to take root. Both partners need to agree on the approach, stay consistent, and support one another.
If you and your partner both want to solve the sleep struggles, it’s crucial to remember something I always say: “Don’t disagree on something you already agree on.” At the end of the day, you both want the same thing—better sleep for your child and a more harmonious household. I’ve seen many families face this struggle and come out of the process stronger, working as a team and supporting one another. The key is to find a way to honor both of your perspectives while keeping your shared goal in focus. Together, we can create a plan that respects each of your wishes and brings you closer as partners on this journey.
3. Inconsistency in Sleep Coaching Approach
For sleep coaching to be effective, consistency is crucial. Whether you’re using a gentle method or looking for alternatives to cry it out, switching techniques too soon or being inconsistent with bedtime routines can make it difficult for your child to learn proper sleep habits. Sleep coaching is not a one-night fix; it requires a commitment to a plan for at least two to four weeks. This consistency provides the structure needed for your child to feel safe and confident as they learn to self-soothe and develop sleep independence.
At Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching, I provide a supportive environment that helps families stay consistent and focused. My coaching packages include regular follow-up calls that are designed to keep you on track. These check-ins offer personalized support, allowing us to troubleshoot any issues or scenarios that may arise during the process. By providing ongoing guidance, I ensure that you’re never left feeling uncertain or alone—giving you the tools and reassurance needed to maintain consistency and achieve long-term sleep success for your family.
4. One Parent Shouldering the Responsibility Alone
Often, one parent takes on the bulk of the sleep coaching responsibility, leading to burnout and frustration. For long-term success, it's important that all caregivers—including partners, grandparents, or even nannies—work together as a team. This unified approach ensures that your child receives consistent cues about sleep, regardless of who is putting them down for the night.
The Family System Approach: A Team Effort
Sleep coaching is about more than just teaching your child to sleep—it’s about creating a system where everyone in the family is aligned and committed to the same goal. Successful sleep coaching involves a team effort, where every caregiver follows the same plan and communicates effectively.
Sleep coaching isn’t about restriction—it’s about creating freedom. With healthy sleep habits in place, you’ll be able to travel with ease, knowing your child can sleep well no matter where you are. Grandparents or babysitters can confidently put your little one to bed without struggle, allowing you the flexibility to enjoy your time away.
Rather than being a disruption, sleep coaching gives your family the gift of consistency and adaptability. When your child has strong, portable sleep skills, life’s adventures—whether it’s a weekend getaway or a night at Grandma’s—become seamless and enjoyable for everyone.
Ready to Sleep Again? Let’s Do This.
If you’re thinking, “Okay, I kinda-sorta-maybe want to try this, but I still have questions,”—that’s what I’m here for.
Let’s start with an easy first step, schedule a Sleep Strategy Session so me, you and your partner can have an 1 hr long zoom session so I can properly assess the sleep situation and determine if you need one-on-one sleep coaching support.
Let’s get your baby sleeping—and get YOU your sanity back.
If you are still wondering if I can help, please know I do NOT advocate 'cry-it-out'. I am a Gentle Sleep Coach. If you want to learn about my guilt-free and gentle process, please go to these links.
The Blissful Baby Stairway to Sleep
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The 2 to 1 Nap Transition: A Gentle Sleep Coach's Guide
The 2 to 1 nap transition is a significant milestone in your child's sleep journey. As a certified Gentle Sleep Coach and founder of Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching, I've guided countless families through this change. This transition can be challenging, but with the right approach, it can be a smooth process for both you and your child. In this blog, I'll share expert tips and strategies to help you navigate the 2 to 1 nap transition with ease.
Understanding the 2 to 1 Nap Transition
The 2 to 1 nap transition typically occurs between 15-18 months, but every child is unique. Some signs that your child may be ready to drop from two naps to one include:
Consistently fighting the afternoon nap: If your child resists the second nap or takes it very late, it might be time to transition.
Difficulty falling asleep at bedtime: An extended afternoon nap can interfere with bedtime.
Shortening morning nap: If the morning nap becomes shorter or skipped entirely, your child might be ready for just one nap.
Tips for a Smooth Transition
Adjust the Morning Nap Gradually: Start by pushing the morning nap later by 15-30 minutes every few days until it aligns with the desired single nap time, usually around midday.
Keep a Consistent Schedule: Consistency is key in sleep training. Stick to a routine to help your child adjust to the new nap schedule.
Create a Soothing Nap Environment: Ensure your child's nap space is conducive to sleep. Use blackout curtains, white noise, and maintain a comfortable temperature.
Watch for Sleep Cues: Pay attention to your child's sleep cues don't let them get “over tired” or they will fight the nap. Overtired signs are rubbing eyes, yawning, or becoming fussy.
Offer a Quiet Time: During the transition, if your child skips the nap, offer a quiet time to rest. This can help prevent overtiredness, 45 minutes is ideal.
Be Patient and Flexible: The transition can take a few weeks. Be patient and allow some flexibility in the schedule as your child adjusts.
Common Challenges and Solutions
Overtiredness: During the transition, your child may become overtired. To combat this, consider an earlier bedtime to compensate for the lost nap time.
Inconsistent Nap Length: Initially, the single nap might be shorter than expected. Encourage your child to extend the nap by keeping the environment calm and minimizing disturbances.
Do you wonder how much sleep your child should be getting? When they should nap? Have you asked yourself “is this is normal”?
You will love my Ages and Stages Daily Sleep Requirements Freebie! This guide breaks it down in an easy-to-follow chart! These charts will show you sleep averages of how much daytime sleep and nighttime sleep children need. They can help you create some kind of routine, avoid overstimulation and add some predictability to your life! As your child grows up, you can refer to these charts to see when you may need to drop a nap or change bedtime.
When to Seek Help
If you find the transition particularly challenging or your child is struggling with sleep, it might be helpful to consult with a gentle sleep coach. At Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching, we offer personalized support and strategies to help your child achieve healthy sleep patterns.
The 2 to 1 nap transition is a natural part of your child's development. With patience, consistency, and the right approach, you can help your child smoothly adjust to this new sleep schedule. Remember, every child is different, so it's important to follow your child's cues and make adjustments as needed.
For more expert tips on sleep coaching and transitioning your child's naps, visit Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching. Together, we can ensure your child gets the restful sleep they need for healthy growth and development.
Need help with this transition? Let’s Do This.
If you’re thinking, “Okay, I kinda-sorta-maybe want to try this, but I still have questions,”—that’s what I’m here for.
Let’s start with an easy first step, schedule a Sleep Strategy Session so me, you and your partner can have an 1 hr long zoom session so I can properly assess the sleep situation and determine if you need one-on-one sleep coaching support.
Let’s get your baby sleeping—and get YOU your sanity back.
If you are still wondering if I can help, please know I do NOT advocate 'cry-it-out'. I am a Gentle Sleep Coach. If you want to learn about my guilt-free and gentle process, please go to these links.
The Blissful Baby Stairway to Sleep
Please join my Sleep is Bliss Tribe in Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn so we can stay connected and you can continue to get amazing resources on sleep and family wellness.
Sleep is Bliss, Let's Get you more!
Navigating the Storm: Understanding Sleep Regressions
Today we're diving into a topic that can send even the most seasoned parents into a frenzy: sleep regressions. Ah, yes, those pesky periods when it feels like all the progress we've made in your little one's sleep habits suddenly vanishes into thin air. But fear not, dear parents, because I'm here to shed some light.
What are sleep regressions
why do sleep regressions happen
how to navigate through these periods of stormy nights & bad naps with patience and grace.
What is a Sleep Regression, Anyway?
First things first, let's talk about what exactly a sleep regression is. Simply put, it's a temporary period when your baby or toddler experiences disrupted sleep patterns, often leading to more frequent night waking, trouble falling asleep, or shorter naps. These regressions can feel like a step backward in your sleep journey, leaving you feeling frustrated and exhausted.
Why Do Sleep Regressions Happen?
Now, you might be wondering, "Why, oh why, is my little angel suddenly waking up every hour again?" Well, sleep regressions can be triggered by various factors, such as developmental milestones, growth spurts, teething, illness, or changes in routine. Essentially, as your child's brain and body go through new stages of growth and development, their sleep patterns might temporarily get a bit wonky.
I have created a free guide on sleep regressions. In this guide I cover:
Common Ages for Sleep Regressions
How long does a sleep regression last
When will a sleep regression happen?
Identifying a sleep regression
Causes of sleep regressions
Tips for managing a sleep regression
Sleep regression resources
Remember, You're Not Alone
If you find yourself in the midst of a sleep regression storm, know that you're not alone. These phases are a normal part of your child's development, and with patience, love, and a bit of caffeine, you will weather this storm.
And remember, if you ever need a guiding hand or a listening ear, Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching is here for you. Together, we'll navigate these choppy waters and emerge stronger, well-rested, and ready to embrace the joys of parenthood.
Here's to smoother nights ahead, filled with sweet dreams and peaceful slumber.
Are you struggling with your child’s sleep? Could you use some support?
The first step to see if I can help you achieve beautiful, blissful sleep is to schedule a 60 minute ZOOM sleep strategy session. Go to this link and complete the contact me form and I will be in touch within 24 hours with directions on how to schedule your Sleep Strategy Session.
If you are still wondering if I can help, please know I do NOT advocate 'cry-it-out'. I am a Gentle Sleep Coach. If you want to learn about my guilt-free and gentle process, please go to these links.
The Blissful Baby Stairway to Sleep
Please join my Sleep is Bliss Tribe in Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn so we can stay connected and you can continue to get amazing resources on sleep and family wellness.
Sleep is Bliss, Let's Get you more!