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What Gets in the Way of Success with Sleep Coaching?
Many families come to me after they've tried and struggled with various sleep solutions—whether it's books, DIY methods, or even other sleep coaches. It's common to feel frustrated or as though you've hit a wall, but it's important to remember that these challenges aren’t a reflection of failure. Most of the time, families are missing some essential elements that can make all the difference in achieving sleep success.
When there are ongoing sleep struggles, it's usually a family system issue, not just about the child lacking sleep skills. It’s sometimes about routines, strategies, how this parent does it versus the other parent. It’s about trying to navigate multiple family schedules, older children, younger children, all of that. For families struggling, it’s crucial to look at the bigger picture and consider all of that when creating a sleep plan.
Sleep Coaching Obstacles
Here are the most common obstacles that get in the way of success with sleep coaching:
1. Lack of a Clear Sleep Plan
Many families try to tackle sleep issues without a structured plan, often resorting to trial and error with different techniques. Without a clear strategy, it’s easy to fall back on inconsistent patterns, which makes it difficult for your child to develop solid sleep skills.
Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching offers a customized plan, tailored to your child and family’s specific needs and goals.The Blissful Baby Stairway to Sleep™process starts with gathering information about your family. I gather detailed sleep logs, client history, and temperament assessments on you and your child. This includes your parenting aspirations and wish list, also known as your Sweet Dreams.
2. Lack of Agreement Between Parents or Caregivers
One of the biggest hurdles I see is when both parents or caregivers aren’t on the same page about the sleep coaching approach. If one parent is following a gentle sleep coaching method while the other is doing something completely different, it can create confusion for the child. This inconsistency can hinder progress and make it harder for sleep skills to take root. Both partners need to agree on the approach, stay consistent, and support one another.
If you and your partner both want to solve the sleep struggles, it’s crucial to remember something I always say: “Don’t disagree on something you already agree on.” At the end of the day, you both want the same thing—better sleep for your child and a more harmonious household. I’ve seen many families face this struggle and come out of the process stronger, working as a team and supporting one another. The key is to find a way to honor both of your perspectives while keeping your shared goal in focus. Together, we can create a plan that respects each of your wishes and brings you closer as partners on this journey.
3. Inconsistency in Sleep Coaching Approach
For sleep coaching to be effective, consistency is crucial. Whether you’re using a gentle method or looking for alternatives to cry it out, switching techniques too soon or being inconsistent with bedtime routines can make it difficult for your child to learn proper sleep habits. Sleep coaching is not a one-night fix; it requires a commitment to a plan for at least two to four weeks. This consistency provides the structure needed for your child to feel safe and confident as they learn to self-soothe and develop sleep independence.
At Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching, I provide a supportive environment that helps families stay consistent and focused. My coaching packages include regular follow-up calls that are designed to keep you on track. These check-ins offer personalized support, allowing us to troubleshoot any issues or scenarios that may arise during the process. By providing ongoing guidance, I ensure that you’re never left feeling uncertain or alone—giving you the tools and reassurance needed to maintain consistency and achieve long-term sleep success for your family.
4. One Parent Shouldering the Responsibility Alone
Often, one parent takes on the bulk of the sleep coaching responsibility, leading to burnout and frustration. For long-term success, it's important that all caregivers—including partners, grandparents, or even nannies—work together as a team. This unified approach ensures that your child receives consistent cues about sleep, regardless of who is putting them down for the night.
The Family System Approach: A Team Effort
Sleep coaching is about more than just teaching your child to sleep—it’s about creating a system where everyone in the family is aligned and committed to the same goal. Successful sleep coaching involves a team effort, where every caregiver follows the same plan and communicates effectively.
Sleep coaching isn’t about restriction—it’s about creating freedom. With healthy sleep habits in place, you’ll be able to travel with ease, knowing your child can sleep well no matter where you are. Grandparents or babysitters can confidently put your little one to bed without struggle, allowing you the flexibility to enjoy your time away.
Rather than being a disruption, sleep coaching gives your family the gift of consistency and adaptability. When your child has strong, portable sleep skills, life’s adventures—whether it’s a weekend getaway or a night at Grandma’s—become seamless and enjoyable for everyone.
Ready to Sleep Again? Let’s Do This.
If you’re thinking, “Okay, I kinda-sorta-maybe want to try this, but I still have questions,”—that’s what I’m here for.
Let’s start with an easy first step, schedule a Sleep Strategy Session so me, you and your partner can have an 1 hr long zoom session so I can properly assess the sleep situation and determine if you need one-on-one sleep coaching support.
Let’s get your baby sleeping—and get YOU your sanity back.
If you are still wondering if I can help, please know I do NOT advocate 'cry-it-out'. I am a Gentle Sleep Coach. If you want to learn about my guilt-free and gentle process, please go to these links.
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Sleep Training Tips for Daycare Parents
My child attends daycare, so scheduling isn't completely in my control. Can I still sleep train?
The good news is, yes, you absolutely can!
Understanding Your Child's Unique Daycare Sleep Situation
First, I want to acknowledge the challenges that come with having a child in daycare. Your daily schedule may not be entirely within your control, and you might feel unsure about how to coordinate sleep training with the daycare routine. Of course, there is the other end of the spectrum where your child is NOT sleeping. These struggles prevent you from being ready for your child to even begin daycare. At Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching, I understand that each family’s situation is unique, and my goal is to create a sleep plan that works for you and your child’s specific needs whether that’s daycare, nanny, family member caregiver or a mix of it all.
Customized Sleep Plans for Daycare Children
One of the key elements of our sleep coaching packages is the personalized approach we take. We review and analyze every child’s unique sleep case history and customize the sleep report and recommendations based on each case. This means that we consider your child’s daycare schedule, the routines they follow there, and how we can best integrate sleep training into your family's daily life.
This client’s goal was to have her child sleeping well before starting daycare. Maternity Leave Goal Achieved!
Effective Communication with Daycare for Sleep Success
Effective communication with your child's daycare providers is essential. We encourage you to share your sleep coaching plan with them and discuss how they can support your child's sleep needs. Many daycare providers are open to working with parents to create a consistent sleep environment. We can provide you with tips and strategies to help communicate your child’s sleep plan effectively.
Things to look for when choosing a daycare & Sleep Questions for daycare checklist for parents
If you are looking for childcare options and not sure where to start? Want some tips? Check out this Blog Article All Things Childcare where I interview with childcare specialist Shannon Parola.
Creating Sleep Consistency at Home for Daycare Kids
While your child may have a different schedule at daycare, it's important to create consistency at home. We will work together to establish a bedtime routine and sleep environment that remains consistent, regardless of the daycare schedule. This consistency helps your child understand that sleep routines are predictable and comforting, which can improve their ability to fall asleep and stay asleep.
Flexible Sleep Plans for Varied Daycare Schedules
Our sleep coaching plans are designed to be flexible and adaptable. We understand that daycare schedules can vary and that occasional disruptions are inevitable. By incorporating flexibility into our approach, we can help your child develop healthy sleep habits that can withstand the occasional changes in routine. We focus on building a strong foundation for sleep that can adapt to different environments and schedules.
Optimizing Daycare Nap Schedules for Better Sleep
Daycare nap schedules may not always align perfectly with your ideal plan, but that doesn’t mean sleep training won’t work. We’ll assess the nap schedule at daycare and find ways to optimize your child's sleep both during the day and at night. By coordinating naps at daycare with the sleep training plan, we can help your child get the rest they need while maintaining the overall sleep goals.
Ongoing Support for Daycare Parents' Sleep Training Journey
At Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching, I provide ongoing support and guidance to help you navigate any challenges that arise. Whether it's troubleshooting nap transitions, adjusting to changes in the daycare routine, or offering reassurance and encouragement, I am here for you every step of the way. My goal is to empower you with the tools and confidence to support your child's sleep journey, even in the context of daycare.
Yes, you can absolutely sleep train your child even if they attend daycare. At Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching, we specialize in creating customized, flexible sleep plans that take into account your child’s unique schedule and needs. By working together and communicating effectively with your daycare providers, we can help your child develop healthy sleep habits that will benefit them both at home and in daycare. Remember, with the right support and strategies, restful nights are within reach for your family.
Are you struggling with your child’s sleep? Could you use some support?
The first step to see if I can help you achieve beautiful, blissful sleep is to schedule a 60 minute ZOOM sleep strategy session. Go to this link and complete the contact me form and I will be in touch within 24 hours with directions on how to schedule your Sleep Strategy Session.
If you are still wondering if I can help, please know I do NOT advocate 'cry-it-out'. I am a Gentle Sleep Coach. If you want to learn about my guilt-free and gentle process, please go to these links.
The Blissful Baby Stairway to Sleep
Please join my Sleep is Bliss Tribe in Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn so we can stay connected and you can continue to get amazing resources on sleep and family wellness.
Sleep is Bliss, Let's Get you more!