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Desperate at 3 A.M.? From 3 a.m. “Playdates” to Full Nights of Sleep
From 3 a.m. “Playdates” to Full Nights of Sleep: Sean & Joanna’s Story of Hope, Grit, and a Well-Rested Baby
What happens when you're so sleep-deprived that a three-hour wake-up in the middle of the night feels normal? For Sean and Joanna, that was rock bottom—and the moment everything started to change.
Let me tell you about a family who reminds me why I do what I do.
Sean and Joanna were living what many tired parents would call “the fog.” Their 13-month-old son was waking multiple times a night—sometimes for hours—and they were running on fumes. Joanna, a physician, was disheartened by the fact that all her medical training did not provide her with the knowledge and tools to solve her own child’s sleep struggles”.. Sean was full-time at home dad and feeling the emotional and physical weight of crappy naps, long nights and trying to care take an active baby boy. By the end of the day, Dad was “ready for the hand-off” of baby to mom so he could get an break.
This couple was trying SO HARD to be present and engaging for their son, hold it together for each other, and survive their days on broken sleep and coffee. Sound familiar?
Until one night… when they had a “3 a.m. playdate”with their toddler. Not planned. Not fun. Just… wide awake. For hours.
“That was it,” Sean said. “I hit a wall. I went online and searched for help. That’s when I found Joanna.”
Yep. That’s me.Most families do indeed land on my website between 1am and 5am out of sheer desperation to end sleepless nights.
🎥 Watch Sean and Joanna share how sleep coaching transformed their family life.
(Click to watch their story—it’s heartfelt, honest, and under 5 minutes!)
☁️ The Turning Point: A Gentle Plan Built for Their Family
When we started working together, I knew we had a few important pieces to honor:
Mom was still nursing, and that nursing bond and relationship mattered deeply.
They were committed to a gentle, responsive approach.
Their son was what we call a “tough cookie”—in other words, he had opinions. 🙂
We went slow. We got strategic. And we stayed consistent. Sean was 100% all in and ran the coaching plan like a champ. Joanna supported with trust and patience while juggling a full-time job. And I was right there with them—making sure we paced everything just right.
Was it instant? Nope.
Was it worth it? 1000%.
“We followed your word like it was the gospel,” Sean told me. “Now he sleeps through the night. I can’t give a better recommendation than that.”
🌙 The After: Calm Evenings, Joyful Mornings, and One Rested Family
Today, their son:
Goes to bed around 7:30–8 p.m.
Sleeps peacefully through the night until 6 or 6:30 a.m.
Turns off the light himself (!), plays quietly, and puts himself to sleep with a smile
Let’s pause right there: That’s not just sleep. That’s confidence. Security. Peace. Independence.
And the ripple effect? Huge.
Joanna is now sharp and efficient at work. Sean and their son enjoy their days together again—playing outside, connecting with joy instead of frustration. They’ve even taken an overnight couples trip while a relative babysat—something they never imagined possible a few months ago.
“There’s so much more joy now,” Joanna told me. “We’re not surviving anymore—we’re living again.”
✨ Real Talk for Exhausted Parents
If you're in that fog right now, here’s what I want you to know:
You are not failing. You are not alone. And you do not have to figure this out by yourself.
I’ve been a certified pediatric sleep coach for 14+ years, and I’ve helped hundreds of families just like Sean and Joanna’s. The truth is—sleep is learned. And with the right strategy, the right support, and a plan rooted in science and compassion, things can change.
Because when your child learns to sleep—you all get your lives back.
🎯 Let’s Make Sleep Happen for You
If you’re nodding along to Sean and Joanna’s story, and you're ready to say goodbye to 3 a.m. chaos...
➡️ Ready for your own transformation? Let’s talk.
Let’s start with an easy first step, schedule a Sleep Strategy Session so me, you and your partner can have an 1 hr long zoom session so I can properly assess the sleep situation and determine if you need one-on-one sleep coaching support.
Let’s get your baby sleeping—and get YOU your sanity back.
If you are still wondering if I can help, please know I do NOT advocate 'cry-it-out'. I am a Gentle Sleep Coach. If you want to learn about my guilt-free and gentle process, please go to these links.
The Blissful Baby Stairway to Sleep
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Sleep Training Tips for Daycare Parents
My child attends daycare, so scheduling isn't completely in my control. Can I still sleep train?
The good news is, yes, you absolutely can!
Understanding Your Child's Unique Daycare Sleep Situation
First, I want to acknowledge the challenges that come with having a child in daycare. Your daily schedule may not be entirely within your control, and you might feel unsure about how to coordinate sleep training with the daycare routine. Of course, there is the other end of the spectrum where your child is NOT sleeping. These struggles prevent you from being ready for your child to even begin daycare. At Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching, I understand that each family’s situation is unique, and my goal is to create a sleep plan that works for you and your child’s specific needs whether that’s daycare, nanny, family member caregiver or a mix of it all.
Customized Sleep Plans for Daycare Children
One of the key elements of our sleep coaching packages is the personalized approach we take. We review and analyze every child’s unique sleep case history and customize the sleep report and recommendations based on each case. This means that we consider your child’s daycare schedule, the routines they follow there, and how we can best integrate sleep training into your family's daily life.
This client’s goal was to have her child sleeping well before starting daycare. Maternity Leave Goal Achieved!
Effective Communication with Daycare for Sleep Success
Effective communication with your child's daycare providers is essential. We encourage you to share your sleep coaching plan with them and discuss how they can support your child's sleep needs. Many daycare providers are open to working with parents to create a consistent sleep environment. We can provide you with tips and strategies to help communicate your child’s sleep plan effectively.
Things to look for when choosing a daycare & Sleep Questions for daycare checklist for parents
If you are looking for childcare options and not sure where to start? Want some tips? Check out this Blog Article All Things Childcare where I interview with childcare specialist Shannon Parola.
Creating Sleep Consistency at Home for Daycare Kids
While your child may have a different schedule at daycare, it's important to create consistency at home. We will work together to establish a bedtime routine and sleep environment that remains consistent, regardless of the daycare schedule. This consistency helps your child understand that sleep routines are predictable and comforting, which can improve their ability to fall asleep and stay asleep.
Flexible Sleep Plans for Varied Daycare Schedules
Our sleep coaching plans are designed to be flexible and adaptable. We understand that daycare schedules can vary and that occasional disruptions are inevitable. By incorporating flexibility into our approach, we can help your child develop healthy sleep habits that can withstand the occasional changes in routine. We focus on building a strong foundation for sleep that can adapt to different environments and schedules.
Optimizing Daycare Nap Schedules for Better Sleep
Daycare nap schedules may not always align perfectly with your ideal plan, but that doesn’t mean sleep training won’t work. We’ll assess the nap schedule at daycare and find ways to optimize your child's sleep both during the day and at night. By coordinating naps at daycare with the sleep training plan, we can help your child get the rest they need while maintaining the overall sleep goals.
Ongoing Support for Daycare Parents' Sleep Training Journey
At Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching, I provide ongoing support and guidance to help you navigate any challenges that arise. Whether it's troubleshooting nap transitions, adjusting to changes in the daycare routine, or offering reassurance and encouragement, I am here for you every step of the way. My goal is to empower you with the tools and confidence to support your child's sleep journey, even in the context of daycare.
Yes, you can absolutely sleep train your child even if they attend daycare. At Blissful Baby Sleep Coaching, we specialize in creating customized, flexible sleep plans that take into account your child’s unique schedule and needs. By working together and communicating effectively with your daycare providers, we can help your child develop healthy sleep habits that will benefit them both at home and in daycare. Remember, with the right support and strategies, restful nights are within reach for your family.
Are you struggling with your child’s sleep? Could you use some support?
The first step to see if I can help you achieve beautiful, blissful sleep is to schedule a 60 minute ZOOM sleep strategy session. Go to this link and complete the contact me form and I will be in touch within 24 hours with directions on how to schedule your Sleep Strategy Session.
If you are still wondering if I can help, please know I do NOT advocate 'cry-it-out'. I am a Gentle Sleep Coach. If you want to learn about my guilt-free and gentle process, please go to these links.
The Blissful Baby Stairway to Sleep
Please join my Sleep is Bliss Tribe in Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn so we can stay connected and you can continue to get amazing resources on sleep and family wellness.
Sleep is Bliss, Let's Get you more!